I tend to be very steadfast in my goals. However, I recognize that my way is not always His way. My son is extremely important in my life and he makes me a better person everyday. Looking For: It is imperative that you be honest about your intentions and clear about your direction in life. Life is too short to play mind games. You must know what it is to be a true man, not just a "male". If you're not seeking a long-term relationship then I'm not the one for you.