I am pretty choicey...I am 5'9" and healthy, and I wear heels frequently. My preference is that my man is tall, a christian work in progress but not holier than thou, ambitious, go-getter, outgoing, fun, affectionately aggressive, and loves his woman, and definitely a one-woman man, which is me. In the meantime, I occasionally get with friends, enjoy a movie, a drink and sometimes have friends over for dinner. Just good times for now...and love life on life's terms.