I am a reserved individual looking for a good nature woman to care for as she cares for me. I am not looking for someone to financially take care of, buy things for or someone who asks me to buy her things or give or lend her money (it will likely never come back)., unless we are married. This gives a very bad impression as it implies that the woman wants me to buy her affections. This is the biggest turnoff for me. When I do something for someone I am dating, I want it to be special. So if you want someone to be buying you gas, someone to give you their credit card so you can use to buy stuff or pay your bills, I am not the person. I want an independent person who is interested in making a relationship with me as I am with her, regardless of who has more money. Two poeple have a relationship because of chemistry; not because of money or other material things. And they provide emotional support to each other and strive to put a smile on each other's face. For me this means, on my own terms, I will surprise you with a gift, a vacation or something because I want to know that you smiled because of me. If you habitually ask me for money or the stuff I have mentioned above, you can expect that it will be over soon.