I'm a 21 year old, laid back, goal-oriented, focused and very guided man. LOVE basketball, anything neo-soul, anything by EA sports (just cuz I play video games doesn't make me a 6 year old!), going to the movies, open mic night, whatever sounds good at the moment. Would much rather cook dinner for my lady than take her out. VERY affectionate, love to kiss, and display my feelings for that special someone. LOVE to laugh and make others laugh. Gap = plus, caramel frappuccinos = plus, anything with Dave Chappelle or Chris Rock = plus, ummmm, I think I'm talking too much... I'm Jay, what's your name??? Looking For: I would love to meet someone with a sense of humor, knows what she wants out of life, has a relationship with God, affectionate, beautiful smile, knows what she wants out of a relationship (or at least have an idea), laid-back, caring, female that I could watch cartoons with!!! (I hope that's not too much...)