In search of a woman who's not afraid of making me her best friend first.

My Ideal match is a strong woman in search of a strong black man. I've spent the last few years of my life trying to figure out who I am. Now that I've figured that out, I'm ready to spend the rest of my life with someone who knows exactly who she is. I'm a simple guy who enjoys cooking out, working out, basketball games, and just plain ole having a good time. I have a great sensor of humor and loves a woman who has the same. I do attend church services on a regular bases and I'm a firm believer in having a spirtual connection in a relationship. I don't do clubs but I do enjoy a great comedy show, or a nice jazz band.