Go to park and do athletic things & leisurely stuff together. spend some time with both our families and build a home busiiness for ourselves, so that we can eventually travel the world and have fun doing it without worrying about coming back to a job.we got to kind of click in many areas if we are to settle down as a couple because forcing it is not going to work, or forced intamacy because of trust issues today and broken family & relationships the person has to have some kind of personal integrity. Even the evidence must be seen in thier family members if we are to mesh as a true couple. people are so ubnstable today that it all really comes down to that high level of personal integrity if any couple is going to make it in our material & sexually explicit society today. I would rather stay to my self if i have to go through all the drama again!!! someone out there has got to be honest in character somewhere... or is this just another waste of time website pushing romance for a price then not recieving the promises they claim. All i want is a good friend and companion who i can trust... I know one lady like this but she's very cautios of me... I have fun with her and she trusts me but the natural attraction and intamacy thing isnt there, you remeber the crush stuff we use to have in and after high school, why cant people be fun loving as in the old days??? I sometimes met those type women in my church community, but they are into school and marriage and are typically 10 yr