Im lookilng for someone who is genuinely nice....thoughtfull.....not materialistic.....self supporting....independant but wants the security (more so emotionally) of a man and all the things that go with being the opposite sex.....someone that likes to be touched...kissed and not just "taken" to bed....someone i can trust with my feelings....someone loyal....not always looking elsewhere.....someone with high standards....but not so high that they are unattainable....or too easy to be critical of....im only here for someone that is of the (for lack of a better term) "ebony" persuaision....and no i havent dated one before...but have chatted at length...i have yet to find one that has love and all its ups and downs as her first consideration.....im hoping this is not the norm....its not about what we have and want in a materialistic world.....but what we need as people.....basic...love trust honesty comfort touch togetherness sharing caring harmony ....maybe im asking too much...but i will hold out till i find it all wrapped up in a beautifully packaged ebony woman.....