I'm 41yrs old w/ 5 children and if you don't like children, I'm not the one for you. I'm real. I won't play games or beat around the bush. Yes, the mother is very active in the children's life but, not mine. I am a 2nd yr student going for a RN Degree at a Community College. I am a Army veteran also with plans to re-enlist in the future. I am looking for someone who is serious about getting to know me first... Let's just talk for a while. Be outgoing and friendly. I'm easy to get to know, and laid back but does what needs to be done when it's time to do it. Now and days you gotta be honest and upfront...that's just me.