I am a retired female after 34 years with the same company. I have 4 grown children away from home. Looking for someone who knows who he is and is not afraid to be in a good relationship. Looking For: I am looking for someone who is mature and not trying to be a player. Someone who has a steady job or retired from a steady job. Someone who wants something out of life and is willing to go after whatever he wants; And doesn't mind working towards a goal of having a secure lifestyle. Someone who is fun to be with and does not mind going out to dinner, traveling, exercising, or trying to maintain a healthy body and mind, and spirit.