I love going to concerts, museums, the movies, traveling, dancing and listening to music. I can be very shy and awkward when first meeting people, hence the online thing. But once I'm comfortable, I warm up and my personality and sense of humor comes out. To say I'm an avid reader is an understatement. I can't pass a bookstore without going in, getting lost for at least an hour and buying up half the sci-fi, non-fiction and African American sections. Looking For: I think a man who is smart and confident but not arrogant; sweet, kind and giving but not a total push over; adventurous but not crazy, and above all, a good person, is a treasure.